Just recently, I had my appendix removed.
I also have no health insurance.
I feel like I could end this blog with just those two sentences and give you, the reader, a perfectly good idea of the entirety of this so-called saga of mine. However, for the sake of (hopefully) a good read, I’ll fill in the blanks for you.
It all started last Monday, December 26th (at least that’s when I started feeling it. When exactly an appendix decides to get blocked/clogged/stop working/burst I actually haven’t a clue). It had been a nice if not lazy Christmas weekend, and I was not looking forward to going back to work after three days off. It was about 5 P.M. when I started having a bout with indigestion. This happens fairly often thanks to one of the weaker genes in my family (this aside from the apparent bottom-of-the-barrel portion of height genes I also inherited. I’m not bitter, I promise). We all have some sort of digestive problem. It’s ok though, don’t feel bad for us. We’re used to it.
I thought nothing of the sudden onset of indigestion, aside from the fact that I thought it was probably caused by my drinking of two cups of delicious Mocha Mint coffee on an empty stomach. We all make mistakes, what can I say?
The indigestion persisted over the next few hours, and then began to mix with feelings of intense hunger. My previously established nighttime plans with my pal Aaron led me to the timelessly classy dining establishment we all know by the name of Buffalo Wild Wings. Little did I know that that one small dining decision would henceforth add to my ever-increasing misery and lead me to later write the following list of complaints/regrets:
1) For the love of all things good and decent, if you have indigestion, please, feel free, nay, obligated to change your dinner plans to anywhere other than Buffalo Wild Wings!!!
2) Buffalo Wild Wings has easily usurped all other restaurants as the most consistently disappointing and frustrating place to eat. It is the single most expensive default sports-watching hang out spot in the history of sports-watching hang out spots. Excuse me? Fifteen dollars?? Are you joking me right now?! ALL I ORDERED WAS A BASKET OF WINGS AND A BASKET OF FRIES!!! I didn’t even order a drink, I got water!! And I still have to leave a tip!! I could’ve gotten a lovely steak dinner at another restaurant for the same price, a place where the clientele actually know and practice at least one or two of the universal rules of proper social etiquette and where you actually get consistent service from the wait staff for the entirety of your visit. And yet I keep going back. If only I had ESPN…
In hindsight, this was not one of my best decisions ever. Perhaps worse even than the aforementioned coffee-on-an-empty-stomach decision, but that’s neither here nor there. After this dreadful dinner, Aaron and I went back to his place to enjoy a couple of Christmas cigars, compliments of my brother Tommy. This is normally quite an enjoyable experience, one that I always look forward to and cherish. However, the persistence of the pain in my stomach permitted me from enjoying it this time. I had to go home as soon as I possibly could.
I went to bed at about 11:30 P.M. hoping the pain would then subside. It did not. I was wide awake by 1:30am in even worse pain. I began experiencing a sharp pain in my lower abdomen and pretty soon thereafter I could not even find a comfortable spot to rest in. After over 8 hours of discomfort and pain, I knew something wasn’t normal.
After about an hour and a half of waiting to see if the pain would pass (it didn’t), I began to suspect appendicitis, not because of any depth of knowledge concerning human anatomy, but because my brother had once had appendicitis and the symptoms I was having sounded similar. I then called my brother to try to confirm the symptoms I was having and sure enough they matched.
“Now what do I do?”, I thought to myself. “I hate hospitals. That’s the last place I want to go. They smell funny and they give me the creeps. But if I don’t go, I literally might die.” So I called my [hopeful] future sister-in-law Jennifer to ask her where I should go. “Not Methodist” was the sage bit of advice she gave to me. She then sent her husband, also named Chad, to pick me up and bring me to Baylor Medical Center.
As it turns out, 3 A.M. in the Emergency Room is only slightly creepy, however, there wasn’t really an ounce of emergency in the whole place. Perhaps “Slightly More Concern Than Normal Room” is more accurate. If my appendix had been looking for an opportunity to burst, that would’ve been an ideal time. I waited about an hour before I was actually seen by someone. Following that initial check-in, every subsequent event, including being led to a room, checking vitals, taking blood, getting a CAT scan, and the final diagnosis, all took from 3 A.M. to about 9 A.M..
One particularly unnerving event took place after I had been in my room for about an hour or so. After having seen 2-3 nurses, male nurses and whatever other kind of nurses there are, a sweet, middle-aged lady came in to gather my personal information, such as my name, address phone number, you know, the usual. What I did not expect was for her to basically tell me that she would not leave my room until she had collected a check or credit card payment from me for use of the emergency room. “Excuse me!? I don’t even know what’s wrong with me yet! I haven’t even seen a doctor yet! You people just told me to take all of my clothes off like ten minutes ago and you already want a payment!?” There aren’t too many places in the world where you have to pay someone else to take your own clothes off. Needless to say, I felt that all of that nonsense was pretty intrusive.
There are many more boring details that I could write about to describe my hospital/surgery experience, but in order to keep you from leaving this page out of sheer boredom, I will sum it all up with a few random thoughts compiled in the following list:
1) Tryptophan has got nothin’ on Anesthesia. I could’ve slept for days had they let me.
2) One of the best things about surgery are all the fresh-out-of-the-drier blankets that you get. Also, being wheeled around while laying in bed brings lazy to a whole new level, but it’s awesome!
3) I really like the idea of having an intercom system built-in to my bed. I’m going to see if I can use this idea somewhere in my future.
4) In case you’ve ever wondered what it feels like to pee liquid fire through a needle, look no further than a friendly encounter with a catheter. Easily one of the most painful events of my life.
Thankfully I only had to spend one creepy night in the hospital. Even though I was on a completely liquid diet post-surgery, and even though the doctors had recommended no greasy or fried foods for the next few weeks, my morning-after hospital breakfast was none other than bacon, scrambled eggs, and hash browns. Yeah, it didn’t really add up to me either. I barely ate any of it.
Upon my release from Baylor Medical Center, I went home and laid on my couch. I didn’t leave it for a week. I just laid there. I couldn’t bathe for at least four days. I barely ate. And I watched a ton of movies (in no particular order: The Money Pit, which I recently purchased in order to come closer to my goal of owning every major Tom Hanks film, with the exception of a few morally reprehensible ones; Rio Bravo, which is an old-time Western starring John Wayne and a drunken Dean Martin; Tombstone, which, next to Heath Ledger as The Joker, features my favorite character role of all-time with Val Kilmer playing Doc Holliday; Memphis Belle, which is an early ’90’s WWII film which my roommate described as being “like Sandlot except in the context of World War II”; and The Shawshank Redemption. Twice. I had never seen it before. It blew my mind. It is now one of my favorite movies of all time). Sounds like the ideal life of a bachelor, except in less than ideal circumstances and minus the not eating part. After the first few days of mostly lying around and sleeping, I began to get a bit stir crazy. All I wanted to do was to be able to walk normally (although having a legitimate reason to use a cane doesn’t come along very often, so I made sure to take full advantage of that), not have to pee sitting down anymore, be able to eat a cheeseburger again, and to go back to work. Within a week, I was indeed back at work, although not full-time and a bit limited. Nevertheless, I was excited to have some sense of normalcy back in my life.
It took some time to get my apartment back into sanitary living condition. Glasses and cookie tins remained on my coffee table for at least a week. Laundry was strewn all over my room. I didn’t sleep in my own bed for about two weeks. Not to worry though. Those things are minor considering the fact that I am still alive. My appendix did not get the best of me. And as I’ve been told numerous times since this all happened, I apparently can be thankful that I will never have to go through this again, because I only had one appendix. Such wisdom. Such insight.
However, I have a feeling that those “words of wisdom” would have never been spoken had I had some sort of heart issue…
I would like to dedicate this memoir to my roommate Ryan, my amazing church family here in Dallas, and my family out-of-state. I have been overwhelmingly blessed by all of you. Ryan has absolutely been the most incredible friend I could have ever asked for through all of this. Aside from being married or having my own mother here with me, I wouldn’t have chosen any other person to be here with me to look after me. He spent the night with me in the hospital, sleeping on one of those stupid chairs that folds out into a bed. He took multiple days off of work my first few days back from the hospital to be with me and make sure I was taken care of. He helped me sit up and walk around, brought me food and drink when I needed it, and just anything I needed, and he did it all with a joyful heart and a completely selfless attitude. What a blessed man I am for knowing him.
My church family as well as my immediate family has blessed me tremendously in the area of financial support. I was completely humbled by their incredible generosity. After all was said and done, it was literally like I hadn’t missed a single day of work. I cannot say thank you enough, nor explain how much worry that your generosity has relieved me of. Thank you all so very much, and may the abundant blessings with which you have so richly blessed me with be returned unto you.
-Chad